Size Matters

  Not truly being part of the conversations or shared history – I took a rather passive and indifferent response to your voiced pains. My lack of compassion further enraged you and you clearly shared your shock and anger at my failed humorous observations, sarcasm and or indifference. Clearly! And wrote in no uncertain terms of your anger and my insensitivity!!

Still not fully comprehending the deep roots of your reaction I immediately apologized as regardless of my lack of comprehension – it obviously meant something much more to you. Out of respect of our friendship it seemed the obvious right thing to do. Something that seems to avoid your perspective since you control most situations. You obviously determine what’s appropriate at all given times.